What is a Keystone Habit? #
I heard of it first from Cal Newport Deep Questions podcast.
The idea is to have activities you want to do every day to indicate (to yourself) that you take some aspect of your life seriously. It has to be big enough to be effortful, but small enough so you can do it even on the busiest days.
Cal Newport recommends a keystone habit for each category of:
But, I've heard of simpler categories like:
And more complex ones like Life Wheel with the roles you play and areas of life like:
- Personal Growth
You don't need to pick a task from each category, but it forces you to make a conscious decision. Mapping your ideas against the categories will help you make sure that you're living your values.
October 2020 #
I've first mentioned it in my monthly summary from October 2020 and picked up two habits at a time.
- Exercise every day (missed only one day in the whole month).
- Morning Pages/Expressive Writing/Journaling (instead of meditation).
It has worked for me pretty well at first. But, after the next month, I was way too busy. To make it worse, I started adding things to the list. I ended up with almost 20 "habits" to do each day. I wasn't able to do any of them, and without a way of prioritization, there were days when I ignored all of them.
At the same time, I realized that the daily Morning Pages isn't working for me. It helps me clarify my thinking, but it didn't help me respond to feeling overwhelmed with everything on my plate.
Lesson learned: keep the list of keystone habits short. #
I'm not sure how short that should be. I don't think it can be shorter than 3-4 items because life is way too complicated, but it probably shouldn't be longer than 7-9. Less is more.
December 2020 #
My idea for keystone habits for January 2021:
- Day highlight (from the book Make Time
- Meditation. (headspace)
- Time with Family
- Physical therapy exercises
- At least 3k steps every day
- Light strength exercise (inspired by the book Make Time again)
- Work clean. (inspired by Mise-En-Place)
- Draw something from my day
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